- drakelily05
- March 9, 2026
Social Media Comparison and Self-Worth
There’s a thing that happens when you’re scrolling and you see someone your age — roughly, approximately, in the same stage of life — and
There’s a thing that happens when you’re scrolling and you see someone your age — roughly, approximately, in the same stage of life — and
Nobody told me that turning 25 would feel like an audit. But there it was — the invisible spreadsheet. Do you have a career trajectory?
I’ve noticed that “How are you?” has almost stopped being a question. It’s a greeting that expects a specific answer — fine, busy, good —
Ten years ago, telling someone you were in therapy was still a disclosure — something you chose to share or not, something that carried social
A friend of mine teaches high school English. She’s been doing it for fourteen years. She told me recently that the kids sitting in her
My refrigerator does not need to know who I am. It has no business having an IP address. And yet here we are. The smart
There’s a particular kind of tired that comes not from doing too much but from being too available. From the perpetual notification, the always-on expectation,
In 2012, “influencer” wasn’t a job title. It wasn’t even really a word in this sense. The people who would come to be called influencers
There’s a video of a public official saying something they didn’t say. It was made with publicly available software, by someone without specialized skills, in
If you follow health media, you might have gotten the impression that smartphones are destroying an entire generation’s mental health, with research to prove it.